Palmers X Funderland Mighty Mum Bloggers Meet-Up 

Hey Guys

Namaste

I was recently invited by Palmer’s, one of the biggest skin care brand, for a Mighty Mum Bloggers Meet up, at Funderland. Funderland is an indoor play area for kids, situated in Rajouri Garden, New Delhi.

While we mommies had an amazing learning experience with Dr Mahima Bakshi, Author of the book Birthing Naturally and a mother and child wellness expert, our kids were busy exploring the multi-level indoor play centre designed to keep  the children entertained, engaged and zinging with energy!

Palmers’  has been synonymous to motherhood and skincare .  Most of you might have heard about their maternity skincare range like stretch marks cream. However, we were also introduced to their latest Women’s Bath and Body products along with their 100% natural baby care range.

These elevated new offerings were presented by Brand and Communications Director, Urvashi Parmar. Urvashi spoke about how she had put up this event to help various moms voice out their queries and opinions about the Brand and help them discover the new wonders of skincare. She mentioned that Palmer’s Cocoa Butter Formula Skin Therapy Oil is the brand’s take on the emerging skincare category of face and body oils.

She said, “Mums of all ages  are keen to keep their skin looking youthful and radiant but they never have enough time for extensive skincare routine. Palmer’s Skin Therapy Oil Face is a saviour, an all-in-one product that takes care of all your worries. Our absolute holy grail that experts swear by! Moreover, it’s so cost-effective that you just can’t ignore it.”

During the event, Mayank Aggarwal, Co-owner and Senior Director of Marketing, Funderland explained the value of uninterrupted playtime in children. Not only it’s important for a child’s development, it is an opportunity for children to bond with their parents and learn valuable skills.

Funderland is perfect for families and friends looking for a way to have a memorable time while staying active in a safe and carefree environment. With separate areas for babies, toddlers and older children up to 10 comprising of giant spiral, drop and wavy slides, basketball area, ball pool, trampolines, mega multi-lane slide, mini-climbing wall, go karts as well as a relaxing restaurant space for grown ups, they offer a unique and fulfilling experience for the entire family to enjoy.

The session was followed by delicious lunch and casual discussions about motherhood, career and self-care. The event concluded with amazing goodies and thank you gift boxes from Palmer’s India.

For more information, please visit: www.palmersindia.com and  www.funderland.co.in

Love

Anandita

Wonder Years Jaipur- Experience Fun with Learning!

Hey Guys

Namaste

Choosing the right pre-school for your child can prove to be a very difficult task. The feeling of leaving your lil one alone in a new place for hours on a stretch is no less than a mini heart attack. But if you keep a couple of things in mind, pre-schooling could be a joyride for you and your little VIP. 

MY CURIOUS LITTLE KIDDO!



My fears got relieved when I visited Wonder Years Pre-School with Shiv where we met Ms. Sharmila Galundia, patron of the school and a seasoned teacher with years of experience in dealing with young minds. 

MRS. SHARMILA GALUNDIA GIVING SOME INSIGHTS ABOUT THE SCHOOL!



Wonder Years follows Reggio Emilia inspired, emergent curriculum founded on the child’s curiosity. It is an experiential approach to learning and discovery of ideas. A rounded development is envisioned with an emphasis on social, cognitive, personal, physical and emotional well-being. The collaborators work together to create a stimulating environment where an idea is explored via discussions and hands-on experiences. 

THEY ARE INSPIRED BY REGGIO EMILIA APPROACH! SITUATED AT VAISHALI NAGAR, JAIPUR.



There are no conventional classrooms in the schools but different learning zones like —  Shakespeare’s Studio which is music and movement room, Creative Cove which fosters creative freedom and imagination, Building Blocks which is a space for logical, scientific and numerical development, Yogi Beans which focuses on gross motor skills and physical development of the children. 

SHIV HAVING FUN AT THE CREATIVE COVE!

 

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FUN FILLED LEARNING AT THE BUILDING BLOCKS!
MY YOGI ENJOYING AT THE YOGI BEANS!



Ms. Sharmila has taken care of the minutest of details in conceptualizing the school. What inspired me the most was the use of natural material like wood, sand, twigs, tree branches, etc. instead of the usual plastic toys and other items. 
The school is designed to provide an unrestricted and varied environment which fosters the children to learn things using their individual and unique sensibility. 


Wonder Years is a blessing in disguise for all you new mothers who are looking to get back to work. Their Day-Care Facility is equipped with all the safety and comfort amenities fused with homely vibes to ensure your young one is at ease while learning. 

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And this is not it, the school also doubles up as a After-School Activity Centre, wherein they conduct a slew of exciting and fun activities for children like creative writing, skating, dance, music, art & craft, theatre, personality grooming, book reading, public speaking, tabletop cooking, indoor games, yoga, martial arts, organic gardening, DIY workshops, to name a few.

THEY ARE RUNNING A SUMMER CAMP THESE DAYS…GO REGISTER NOW!

So thats it guys! I hope you had a Happy Read. Please leave your queries, if any, in the comment section below. Also, do not forget to follow me on Instagram for regular updates.

To know more about the school, please visit wonderyearsjaipur.com

You can also keep a tab on their uber-cool activities, follow them on Facebook facebook.com/wonderyearsjaipur and Instagram instagram.com/wonderyearsjaipur

Much Love

Anandita

Happy Weaning!

Namaste everyone

Hope you all are doing good.

So today, I’ll be answering the most commonly asked questions by moms. How did you start weaning? What food do give to Shiv? When did you start solid food? Etc etc .

So, Shiv was exclusively breastfed for 6 months. I never gave him top feed or any other source of nutrition before that. Many people start with Dal ka pani and water at around 4 months. But I do not recommend this. Breastmilk has all the required nutrients for a baby until 6 months.

See, I listen to my paediatrician and do everything according to him, and this has worked really well for me. ‘Doctor to yuheen kehte hain’ is the most commonly heard phrase from our relatives. But our doctors have studied for 10 long years guys. They know better than any of our family members or acquaintances . Why will the doctors advise something that’s not important? Think about it!

Anyways! Let’s begin with how I started weaning?
I started weaning at 6 months exactly. The first meal I gave Shiv was 2 spoons of coconut water. He got so excited after the first sip. I guess it happens with everyone.

How to begin?

Begin with 3 meals daily, 1/4th katori (bowl).
First Meal(Liquid)- Dal ka pani, Vegetable Soup, coconut water

Second Meal(fruit purees, blended properly)- banana, boiled apple, chikoo, seasonal fruits. Avoid sour fruits initially.

Third meal(Solid food)- khichdi, Daliya, Sooji kheer, Oatmeal, sooji halwa. Use breastmilk for cooking if needed.

Sips of water throughout day.

Increase the quantity to 1/2 katori after 15 days and add another solid meal
1 solid + 1 liquid + 1 fruit purée + 1 solid

Increase the quantity to 1 katori after next 15 days and add one more solid.
1 solid + 1 liquid + 1 solid + 1 fruit + 1 solid

After Shiv turned 7 months old, I started putting vegetables to his solid meals. Pumpkin, bottle gourd, carrots, beans, broccoli were my favourites. Avoid giving tomatoes initially. Also, I started with Paneer blended with Dal or vegetables, Potatoes and Sweet Potatoes at around 8 months.

Keep increasing the consistency of the food slowly. You may also use Amul full cream milk after 8 months for cooking food. No cows milk please. It contains high amount of proteins which are difficult to digest. Also, it lacks the right amount of iron required by the baby.

Things to avoid till 1 year
Salt
Sugar
Spices
Cows milk

My baby doesn’t eat. What to do? Should I add salt or sugar to his/her food for flavour?
Well! This is again a very frequently asked question.
Weaning is very important, and it’s on us how we deal with it. Our babies will put us into a difficult situation for sure. That’s completely normal. That doesn’t mean that they need flavour. Let me make it very clear that OUR BABIES KNOW NOTHING ABOUT FLAVOUR INITIALLY. We will have to work hard and keep trying. Try to distract the baby with stories, toys, lights, flowers, shoes…anything. Let them watch television guys if that helps them eat. It’s just a matter of 10 minutes. I remember I used to take Shiv to the garden, or the temple in our house, or my mom in law used to talk while I spoon fed him. So there are many many ways. Never give up. Keep trying hard. Search for new ways and never panic.


Most importantly, always think positive. Thoughts like ‘Offo she won’t eat now’ , ‘Why isn’t she eating?’, ‘It is very difficult to make her eat’ are negative thoughts. Instead think that ‘My kid is a good girl’, ‘She will eat properly’, ‘She will love what I have cooked today’ are some positive thoughts that should always be there in your mind.

Things to remember:

1. Try using a high chair so that the baby can learn to sit and eat properly.

2. Never force feed the baby. Always remember that babies would never starve themselves.

That’s it guys! Let me know if you want to know about anything else in the comment section below. Also, Shiv(11 months) is going through a difficult teething phase right now. He does not want to eat anything. So, all you experienced and beautiful moms, please suggest me ways to deal with this cranky phase.. I shall be grateful.

And do not forget to follow me on Instagram for regular daily updates.

Take care

Love

Anandita

My Post Pregnancy Hair Care Routine- with Kama Ayurveda!

Hey all!

Namaste!

Hope you all are doing great and my Mommy readers, hope you are all enjoying your motherhood! It’s the most beautiful experience of a woman’s life. Enjoy it to the maximum because these days won’t come back!

Pregnancy was a wonderful experience for me. There were plenty of beauty bonuses that helped me look and feel great. One of them was a Fabulous head of hair. Thanks to those pregnancy hormones. But what happens to those thick and lustrous hair after 3 months post delivery? Oh god, it’s super stressful. Isn’t it?

Today, I will be talking about My Post Delivery Hair Care routine. I was very happy with my hair till 3 months after Shiv was born. But then I was shocked to see my hair falling out. It felt as if I would go bald in a few days. This happened for 1 month daily. I felt so worried throughout and one day my mom suggested me to try hair care products from Kama Ayurveda.

1.Kama Ayurveda cold pressed Organic Coconut Oil-

I actually bought this oil for Shiv’s daily massage. And one day I tried this on my hair too. Since then it has been my favourite and I never forget to apply this at least once a week. I first warm it up and apply it on my scalp, I massage my scalp gently for few minutes and then leave it for at least 20 min before washing my hair. I can really see the difference, as it leaves my hair looking super shiny and healthy. This coconut oil is definitely a must have in my bathroom.

Price- ₹595/- for 200ml

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2.Kama Ayurveda Rose and Jasmine Hair Cleanser-

I love using natural and organic products on my hair, as the chemical ones tend to damage our hair in the process of cleaning it. The Rose and Jasmine hair cleanser is a mild shampoo and is made up of natural ingredients. Initially when I tried this shampoo, I got a little worried that if my hair were washed properly or not, as there was not much lather formation. But my hair really felt very clean. I was super happy with the results. What I must suggest here is that, it takes time to see the benefits of a new shampoo that you start to use. Give it atleast a month to see how your hair behaves to it before opting for another one. I have been using this shampoo since 4 months now and I have not seen any hairfall. Also, I love how soft and clean my hair looks after every wash.

Price- ₹1125/- for 200ml

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3.Kama Ayurveda Rose and Jasmine Hair Conditioner

This is a must have if you are using the above shampoo. It is again a chemical free conditioner and leaves my hair immensely soft and bouncy. Just apply on wet shampooed hair, concentrating on the ends. Keep it for 4-5 minutes and rinse it off with clean water. It prevents hairfall, promotes hair growth and leaves them look stronger, shinier and moisturised with every wash.

Price- ₹1250/- for 200ml

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All these products as available on Nykaa as well. Shop now here.

So that’s it guys. Post pregnancy hair fall is a temporary phase. After you give birth, your estrogen levels decreases causing the hair(which were in resting phase during pregnancy) to fall out. There is absolutely no need to worry. You will not go bald. Just take good care of your hair, eat proper iron and protein rich food and most importantly do not take any stress.

As I always say, enjoy your motherhood, be happy and spread positive vibes.

I hope you had a happy read. Please leave your reviews or any queries in the comment section below. Also, follow me on Instagram for regular updates.

Love

Anandita

My Postpartum Weight Loss Journey!

Hello Lovelies

Namaste!

I am finally sharing the most requested post today- MY POST PARTUM WEIGHT LOSS JOURNEY! See, I am a normal woman who gained weight, then lost some, ate healthy, ate poor also and has also been very lazy to work out sometimes. I do not have that perfect body right now and I don’t consider myself to be fitness influencer.

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I really feel that every human body is different and it’s more important to appreciate your body and find ways that work best for you. To be honest, my body has always been on the slimmer side(thanks to my genes and good metabolism). And according to me, this factor plays a very essential role.

But ultimately, you guys have continually asked about my weight loss journey. So here I am with some tips that I feel really helped me lose those 20 kgs faster.

Breastfeeding– Exclusive breastfeeding for 6 months has helped me reduce weight in a very big way. I know not every woman can breastfeed. No judgement here. But if you can, I suggest every mama to stick to it. I consider it to be a blessing for both Mom and Baby. It burns upto 500 calories per day. Yes, you read that right!

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Healthy diet– I was breastfeeding and Diet plays the most important role here. I did not deprive myself and never restricted my portion sizes. I focussed more on filling my tummy with a balanced diet. Oat meal; Dal,Roti,Sabzi; Daliya(Porridge); Salads(after first 40 days); Milk; and lots of water. I used to have Makhana(Fox nuts) whenever I craved for some snacks. That’s it! What I completely avoided in the initial months was White sugar(Instead use Coconut sugar and Jaggery) and Too much Ghee(Just total 2 big Spoons daily)

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Walks and Baby jobs– I started walking as soon as I felt comfortable. Please don’t be bed ridden all the time and always listen to your body.  I went through a c-section, but made sure to walk in my room and do all my baby’s work everyday, like massage, bathing, changing diapers, making him sleep, on my own. I did not take much help from my Jappa wali Bai. All this definitely helped me bond with my baby more and I felt happy  and good about myself. In fact I feel proud of myself today. I believe that keeping yourself engrossed in your newborn will help you stay healthy mentally. And I consider this to be a reason why I did not suffer from Post Partum Depression.

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Work Out– I started doing mild yoga 3.5 months post delivery.  Just simple stretches at home  and brisk walks for only 10-15 minutes was my daily workout. I suggest to begin steadily, especially if you have had a c-section. And also, most importantly, never start anything without consulting your doctor. At around 6 months, I was doing running(sometimes) and more yoga. Today, I do 20 sit-ups, 10 suryanamaskars , 10 squats , 10 lunges and some leg rotations every day at home.  

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DSC_8277an4 I am still 3 kgs above my pre prgnancy weight. I plan to join a gym after Shiv turns 1 year old. I definitely need some body toning now.

My personal advice for the post partum period would be to focus on feeling POSITIVE and HAPPY again, rather than losing weight. Just eat healthy, feel nourished and exercise. Give yourself confidence and grace. Never forget that you have created a miracle. 

So, That’s it guys! I hope you had a happy read. Please do not forget to give your reviews in the comment section below. Also, I would love to hear your weight loss stories.

Follow me on Instagram for regular updates and posts!

Much love

Anandita

                                                                                 

My Baby Wearing Experience with Soul Slings!

Hello Friends

NAMASTE!

When I was a kid, I remember how exciting it was to watch people from the west carrying their little ones on their tummies. Many (especially in India) were not aware about this concept at that time. But, since past few years, baby wearing has become very popular among people all over the world.

Babywearing– is simply the process of keeping your little ones close to you while you do your work handsfree. Even I never heard that word until Shiv was born. I didn’t know that it’s even possible to ‘wear’ your baby. I thought that baby carriers are just for traveling. Also, being a first time mom, I was a little skeptical about it being safe. But when I discovered that it is a completely secure process (if worn properly), I decided to go for it.

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Luckily, few weeks back, I recieved a mail from Soul slings, Bangalore asking me to try their Linen Soul Anoona (Who would say no to this?). I was overjoyed and selected my favourite colour and pattern immediately. And in the next few days, my Soul carrier was at home. They also sent me a pair soft souls(shoes) for Little Shiv.

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SO CUTE AND COMFY SOFT SOULS!

How Baby wearing helped me?

Shiv loves to be held most of the time and doesn’t stay in the stroller for long. It becomes very hectic for me to travel, shop and do the daily chores at home. Sometimes, if I am alone at home or outside, I get so tired and stressed out holding him all the time.
With baby tucked in a carrier, I feel so independent as my hands are free and I can easily do all my day to day activities like cooking(mild cooking), laundry, travel, shopping and also blogging(sometimes).

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Not only us(parents), baby wearing also helps our babies feel comfortable and secure. Carriers allow baby to enjoy being in your presence even when you are concentrating on other activities. Recently, we went to Amritsar for a short vacation. I wore Shiv mostly in the front face position and he was so happy looking around new people and places. Thankfully the trip was a success and lots of credit goes to my Linen Soul Anoona by Soul slings.

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CrazyLilMum Review:

Fabric Quality– The first thing that impressed me as soon as I opened my carrier was the soft and lightweight linen fabric. It looks so breathable and is perfect for hot weather. Also, linen is considered to be more durable and it gets softer with every use.

Comfort– This factor plays a very important role to ensure whether your baby is in a proper position or not. My Linen Soul Anoona has padding at the right places for the baby, along the neck and back, thigh padding; and in the bum area. Also, the buckles and straps feel very gentle on my body, yet firm and are well made for the safety of the baby.

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Versatile– another feature I love about this sling is that it supports 5 carrying positions. (front carry, newborn front carry, front carry facing out, hip carry, and back carry). Shiv likes to be held in the front facing position most of the time as he loves to look around.

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Super stylish– This is the most attractive thing about this brand. They make a huge range of super stylish slings with very pretty colours, and fascinating patterns. The one which I am using is the sailor pattern . It is pastel blue with a hint of pink on the sides. These are perfect for style conscious parents.

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Ease of use– It takes time initially to get that perfect fit, but once you get used to it, it becomes extremely easy to wear. I wore it in a wrong way quite a few times. So, do watch a demo on YouTube before starting.

Additional features– It can be used for newborn(3.2kg) to a toddler(20kg). It also has a hood in the front to protect your baby from sun or cold winds. This hood also aids in Breastfeeding while babywearing.

Overall, I give my Linen Soul Anoona 5/5, It is extremely comfortable and this is what I was looking for since a very long time.

Price- 7750/-
Yes, you may find it a little pricey in the beginning. But it’s definitely worth it. (Listen, it can be used till toddlerhood. What else do we need?). You can buy the same sailor design here.

Availability- soulslings.com

So guys, go grab your baby carriers now. And, please let me know about your thoughts on Babywearing, and how this has helped you?

Also, do not forget to follow me on Instagram for regular feeds!

Much love!
Anandita

Note: The product was sent to me by the brand in exchange of an honest review. However, the views shared are my own. I will never recommend anything to my followers that I won’t use for myself or my family.

Those 40 DAYS!

Motherhood It is a whole new world.
Here comes, a cute baby boy, with big eyes and the best smile in the world.. We welcomed our little bundle of joy on 23 May 2017, and we named him SHIV.

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Hey Guys
Namaste!

I am back with another episode of my life, HOW I SPENT THOSE 40 DAYS. I would like to discuss this story into 2 parts. First, on my experiences and the second part on my diet. So, let’s begin and have a happy read!

As soon as we see that cute innocent face, we forget all the pain and wounds that incurred during the delivery. But, it is really important to give our body good rest so that it gets back to normal. In India,elders advise a confinement period of 40 days, when the new mom and baby stays indoor and the mom is not allowed to do any household work… thus giving her time to take adequate rest and bond with the baby.
I was told about this by all my family members as soon as I got pregnant. At first, I thought it to be a useless old practice, which has no meaning. But, after browsing the internet and reading some Ayurvedic books, I realised its importance. A proper post delivery care is very essential to reduce the risk of many health complications that may arise later. And these 40 days are meant for that.

HOW I SPENT MY 40 DAYS!

1. I was given a full time Japa Bai as soon as I entered my house. When she arrived, I was a bit set back. First, she was old and second I never wanted one. You know, I am a very possessive person and I don’t easily trust people. So, I was always very hesitant to hand over my baby to her. It’s not that she was inefficient, it was just my fears. In fact, with time I realised that she was so knowledgable and had so much experience of handling newborns. I learned a lot of things from her, most importantly bathing my baby. Full credit goes to her. The only problem I faced was her interfering nature. I am a Doctor Bhakt, and sometimes didn’t allow her to do certain things( example Loi). But, still I really thank her for being there with me 24 hrs for those 40 days.

2. Despite, having a japa maid, I made sure to massage and bathe my baby on my own. This helps in mother-baby bonding. It gave me a sense of joy. And I also read somewhere, that it helps to reduce the chances of Post partum depression. Yes, I didn’t suffer from that.

3. YouTube Zindabad– Guys my best friend during those days was Youtube. It taught me everything, from changing Little Shiv’s diapers to some great baby massaging moves.

4. Those sleepless nights– During my pregnancy, I used to visualise a cute little baby sleeping peaceful in the cot, very close to my bed, and I watched my angel smiling back at me. But..Uff…the reality was very different.
My husband and I used to feel like zombies. We were seriously suffering from lack of sleep. I remember how we used to spend every minute of the whole night getting him to sleep-nursing, rocking, singing or changing diapers. He used to take a solid 15 minutes nap each time and then woke up wanting to be snuggled again….Mommy I miss you….lol. We three used to sleep at 7 am till 11 am every day. This was the routine. Everyone used to say that that I should sleep when the baby sleeps. But I don’t know why, it was very hard for me. And also, I don’t remember when my baby slept for 16-18 hrs a day. It was hardly just 10 hrs.
This continued for around 1.5 months, and Shiv finally had a sleep routine after that. All thanks to my mom who guided me on how to sleep train a baby.

5. Sleep training your newborn-
Step 1- Pick a bed time and stick to it. It was 10:00 pm in my case.
Step 2- Give your baby a massage.
Step 3-Change his/her clothes and let them be comfortable in their night suits.
Step 4- Switch off the lights and feed the baby.
Step 5-Sing a song. Try to sing the same lullaby every night.
….And the baby goes to sleep.
Shiv used to get up 4-5 times at night just for taking feed.

That’s it guys. I hope these sleep training steps will be of some help to you. Do let me know about your experiences in the comment section below. I would love to here from you. Also, do not forget to follow me on Instagram for more.

Thanks for reading! And I will be back soon with ‘My Diet and How I lost my pregnancy weight’ next time.. So, stay tuned and spread good positive vibes.

Love
Anandita

My Maternity Shoot!

Hello Family

Namaste

First of all, I am overwhelmed by all the love that you guys are showering on me and my blogposts. I feel so encouraged and to be honest, I didn’t expect such an amazing response before starting my blog.  So, a big thank you and tons of love.

Today, I am back with another post, which would probably be my last pregnancy blogpost. It was so much fun to share my pregnancy journey with all of you, and what made it look more beautiful was my MATERNITY SHOOT.

When I was 34 weeks pregnant, Avinash and I were very excited to capture some precious photos of that beautiful chapter of our lives. It took me a very long time and lots of hard work to decide different themes. And gathering different kinds of outfits and props was the most difficult task. But, when I saw the final result, I was so happy and realised that all my hard work was worth it. I was completely in love with the pictures and I hope you guys like them too…

 

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I would like to thank the very talented Prachi Sharma from Third Dimension, who was my photographer and she helped me a lot to execute my maternity shoot vision. She made me feel at ease, which is very important for a maternity photoshoot. Also, a very big thank you to Vaunt designer clothing for all those dreamy outfits, which gave me the looks I wanted.

Tips for a Perfect Maternity Photoshoot

I personally feel that you don’t need to work hard on yourself for the shoot, as you and your bump are the stars.  It’s the bump that will do everything. But, yes externally you will need the following tips-

  1. Find the right photographer.
  2. Plan your shoot during the 8th month. The bump looks the best during this time.
  3. Plan your outfits and props for every theme.
  4. It is very important for you to be comfortable during the photoshoot. You should be comfortable with your clothes, location and photographer.
  5. Don’t spend much on a makeup artist and be natural. (Photoshop does miracles…haha)
  6. Take short breaks in between.
  7. Feel confident.

So guys, that is it! I hope you guys had a happy read! Do let me know by commenting below. Also, do not forget to follow me on Instagram for regular updates.

I will be back with more posts on Post delivery self and Baby care. So, Stay Tuned and shower lots of love.

Love

Anandita

 

 

 

MY BIRTH STORY!

Hello lovelies

Namaste !

It took really long for me to put together my birth story as it was the most scary yet memorable day of my life. I have kept it very raw and simple,and I hope you guys will like it. Happy reading and here it goes!

Since the day I got pregnant, I always knew that I wanted a natural delivery, and my commitment became even stronger as the time passed. I read a lot of books, browsed the internet and attended several childbirth classes, and to be honest, most of them focused on natural delivery. I always had this in my mind that it is better to deliver in a way that the God and nature has created. Another reason why I wanted a natural birth was because I also wanted a faster recovery.

It was 22 May 2017, at around 9 pm. I was watching TV while laying on the sofa and suddenly, I felt some trickling. I immediately called Avinash and we rushed to the hospital without wasting any time. There, the emergency doctor did my check up, and we were disappointed as it was just mucus…lol. We came back home, but I don’t know how I had that intuition that something was going to happen, and went off to sleep.

I slept really well that night and woke up at around 9 am. As soon as I got off from the bed, I felt trickling again, which was much more than the previous one. I was really scared and asked Avinash and my mom in law to take me to the hospital again. I remember, we were in the lift and I suddenly felt a gush of fluid coming out. ‘Oh my God, my water broke!’

At around 10 am, my doctor did my checkup and I was shifted to the labour room immediately. I was made to wear that scary pink hospital gown and they also gave me a tablet to induce pains. I could feel a continuous trickling, but there was no pain at all.

Ugh! I look horrible. They made me eat because I needed energy to tolerate the labour pains! Avinash! You could have clicked a nicer picture.

It was 10:45 exactly, and I felt my first contraction. Avinash and my mom in law were with me in the labour room. The contractions appeared in a gap of 15 mins, and oh boy! They were terrible! As the time passed, the intensity of pains increased and at around 2:30 pm, they became continuous with maximum intensity and I was shouting badly. Avinash was there with me throughout, holding my hand and was cheering me up.

By mid afternoon, the contractions were coming one after the other, but I was only 3-4 cm dilated. The doctor told me that I wasn’t progressing, “We should think about a C-section.” My first reaction was that I didn’t want one, and starting crying even louder. She told me that she would let me go for another 4-5 hrs, but I might not progress anymore. And also I had lost all my amniotic fluid and there was a risk that my baby could catch some infection. I had not read much about C -section and I didn’t know what to expect. I trusted my doctor and said Ok.

Now, comes the most terrible part of my delivery. First of all, Avinash was not allowed to stay with me during the operation. Second, I was in full intensity labor pain and I seriously don’t remember what all they were doing with me at that time. I can just recollect that I was surrounded by n number of people and they first made me sit, did something on my back, I felt a sharp pain due to the injection and started crying badly. Uff! I get goosebumps whenever I think of that moment.

Then, they made a partition and I couldn’t see what the doctors were doing. They also put an oxygen mask on my face and I felt pretty relaxed and mentally present at that time. Right before she pulled the baby out, she gave me a signal,’We are ready’, and they pulled him out. I could feel everything that was going on, but it was not painful.

The baby started crying the second he was out, and they didn’t even tell me whether it was a girl or a boy, despite me asking many times.It took them 5 minutes to clean the baby and test him. Then they brought the baby to me, and said IT IS A BOY.

OMG! That was the most beautiful and precious moment of my life. I think those feelings cannot be expressed in words. He was staring at me with his widely opened eyes and the first thing I said to him was, ‘I LOVE YOU MY BABY‘. Then, they took him outside and announced the good news to my family.

Here comes my boy! Little Shiv has arrived!

The only regret that I have was that my husband couldn’t be with me during my delivery. I always dreamt of seeing my baby for the first time with Avinash. Anyways, it’s fine. Everything that happens, happens for good.

Yes guys I had a C-section and it was surely not a part of my “birth plan,” but the outcome, the healthy baby, THAT was the most important thing.

So, peeps I hope you enjoyed reading my BIRTH STORY. I know it was a bit long but I seriously have edited a lot to keep it very simple.

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Lots of love
Anandita